Celebrating 13 Years of Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara
Dear Diary,
One of my favourite films, “Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara” (ZNMD), has completed 13 long years… Gosh, I can’t believe it’s been 13 years. It feels like it was released just last year, and my excitement was immeasurable to witness my favourite stars. I must admit this movie taught me a lot of life lessons. It literally struck a chord not just with me but with many viewers. Also, it made Spain the most favourite place for all Indians to visit. But jokes apart, this film directed by Zoya Akhtar is one of its kind, and here’s why.
What Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara Taught Me?
Before I dive in, let me give you a sneak peek of the film. Well, it follows the life of three besties – Kabir (Abhay Deol), Imran (Farhan Akhtar), and Arjun (Hrithik Roshan) while they are on a road trip across Spain.
1.     Step out of your comfort zone
One of the central themes of the film is the adventure each of the three friends—Kabir, Imran, and Arjun chooses. It starts with deep sea diving and moves on to skydiving and running with the bulls. As a viewer, I felt that this part of the storytelling imparts a crucial life lesson about stepping out of your comfort zone. Sometimes, we must try something different, and you will definitely witness real growth when you take on real challenges.
2.     Spare some time for yourself and live in the moment
If you have seen the film, you’ll know that Arjun is a workaholic. He literally brings his work on vacation, even arranging a meeting in the middle of it. Because of this, Arjun is unable to enjoy it thoroughly. But when he meets Laila (Katrina Kaif), he learns to value time.
He finally understands the importance of balancing work and life. Laila makes him realize that changing the course of life for yourself and your happiness is important. It is essential to live in the moment. What’s the point in planning a future if you are sad in the present? Believe me, I totally agree with this philosophy.
3.     Value relationships
These three friends reunite after ages, and despite their differences, the movie showcases their strong bond throughout the film. Believe me, this crazy trio’s road trip is not just a vacation but a journey that rekindles their friendship. Furthermore, it helps them understand each other better. This film reminds us to cherish our friends and make time for those relationships, no matter how busy life gets.
4.     It’s best to let go
One of the key subplots in ZNMD is the tension between Imran and Arjun. Their differences have grown so significant that Arjun struggles to forget the tiff, eventually affecting their friendship. However, with time, Arjun realizes the importance of moving on, and they reconcile.
Another subplot revolves around Imran’s quest to find the truth about his father, seeking closure. Through these beautiful subplots, the film highlights the necessity of resolving past conflicts and making peace with unresolved issues. This not only provides emotional relief but also helps in moving forward with a lighter heart.
5.     Overcome your fears
The three besties are all set to unravel their adventurous sides. They are all scared, but they confront and fight their fears with every sport. I feel that is the biggest lesson from the film—overcome your fears.
Whether it’s Arjun facing his fear of deep-sea diving, Imran undertaking skydiving, or all three facing a near-death experience by running with the bulls. ZNMD teaches us that facing our fears head-on can lead to personal growth and a more fulfilling life.
6.     Follow your passion
Arjun’s journey in the film is a testament to the importance of following one’s passion. In the film’s first part, Arjun is a workaholic investment banker with little time for anything else.
But as the story progresses, he realizes the importance of balance and starts doing activities that make him happy, such as cooking. This serves as a reminder that while professional success is essential, it should not come at the cost of personal fulfilment.
7.     Understanding your life goals
One major subplot revolves around Kabir’s life. He is about to get married, and this trip is his last as a bachelor. However, the twist is that, although he loves Natasha (Kalki Koechlin), he hasn’t proposed to her, leading to a significant misunderstanding. Additionally, she transforms into a woman dependent on Kabir, which he dislikes. Kabir wants her to be independent and true to herself.
He doesn’t like this side of her. Most importantly, he never wanted to get married but is now doing it for the sake of his family. Therefore, this movie teaches the lesson of following your own life goals. It doesn’t matter if it is difficult or hurtful—ultimately, it is your life and your decisions.
8.     Don’t just enjoy the destination, but enjoy the process
One key lesson from this film is to enjoy the journey rather than focus solely on the destination. Throughout the film, it’s not about the destination or picturesque locations but the lighthearted moments.
Moments like the Tomatina festival, friendship bonding, Laila and Arjun’s romance, and many others bring a smile to your face. I believe this lesson applies to life as a whole—embracing the process and experiences along the way can be more rewarding than merely achieving the end goals.
On a Parting Note…
For me, “Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara” is more than just a film. Instead, it’s a celebration of life and its myriad experiences. Watching the movie indeed encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone, cherish relationships, live in the moment, and embrace life’s adventures. So, it is always first on the watchlist, so I literally binge-watch. Well, this is all about me. But before I sign off, let me know what you like about the film. Do comment!
